Counseling & Therapy
What results can you expect to get out of therapy?
Sometimes, when I call back in response to a message left on my voicemail, I can tell that the person has no inkling of what psychotherapy is. Other times, all the person knows is that they are overwhelmed, and have been told they need anti-depressants, or their intimate partner is insisting on therapy. So, here…
Read MoreRacism Affects All of Us – An Essay about Micro Agression
This personal essay was written by me during the continuing political and racial unrest of 2021, then published in fort da (2021). Happy reading…..Kalpana While writing the Letter from the Editor for this issue of fort da, and thinking about the ways identity, including race and culture, influence psychoanalytic thinking and technique, I received an…
Read MoreMaking it Count
The spin instructor implores his class – “Make it count!”. “Don’t regret it later”, he adds. His message is clear – make this moment in time useful, give it your all. Mary Oliver says it a little differently in her poem about a Summer’s Day. Excerpt is taken from her poem: Tell me, what else…
Read MorePostpartum Depression: How Counseling and Psychotherapy Can Help
Post Partum Depression affects the entire family and must be taken seriously. PPD affects the child in many ways – children of women who suffer with PPD are more likely to be anxious and more insecure in their attachments. I find that women who have had traumatic events in their lives are more likely to…
Read MoreHow Psychotherapy Can Help With Marriage Counseling
Learn to hear and be heard effectively A marriage friendly therapist helps the couple communicate better after understanding the emotions of both partners. The couple learns to recognize each person’s feelings about difficult topics, and learns to hear and be heard effectively. This dramatically de-escalates tensions and fights. Then the work begins – to really…
Read MoreHow Psychotherapy Can Help You Overcome Depression
Medication doesn’t have to be the first stop in treatment. Doctors routinely treat depression symptoms by handing out prescriptions for anti-depressants. The pharmacology industry and insurance business as well as popular culture and media have made medication the first step in treating depression. There are people who really need medication to be able to get…
Read MoreWhen and Why You Should Consider Professional Counseling and Therapy
Tens of thousands of Americans seek out professional counseling and psychotherapy each year. Their reasons for doing so are as varied and unique as the individuals themselves. Some may be looking for help in their relationships, trying to cope with the loss of a loved one, or hoping to overcome recurring anxiety and stress, while…
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